A friend
of mine recently took a crack at a joke that made my skin crawl. I'm still thinking about it days later, 'Whole Foods? Ha! More like Whole Paycheck!' Aside from the fact that you can actually thrive and even become a body builder off of a low budget organic vegetarian diet from WF... Aside also from the irony of her having just bought a truck load of fresh organic produce or the vegetarian diet she adopted to save money, live a longer, fuller life, and "lower her medical bills" (a BOAT load of money..) - I'm still having trouble wrapping my head around all the not-so-obvious reasons I find that joke so unfunny.Before I go on, in hopes that those like her who might actually be reading these posts (or more importantly those worse off, who actually have extremely restrictive budgets) - I wish to impart upon you with this bit of wisdom: I'm the last person you'll ever meet that would complain to your face about your choices or make fun of you openly for eating a delicious McDonald's breakfast sandwich, or a meat lovers Digiorno, or every piece of discounted/on sale produce from Walmart.
My 'social media activism' is only a small part of who I am, and this social aspect of my activism doesn't extend into real life beyond my closest inner circle, with the exception of actually "Putting my money where my mouth is" - I won't invite you to dinner and feed you Walmart produce, but I find it hard to decline a bbq with a group of great people.
In fact - believe it or not - I'm the least judgmental person you'll ever meet for several reasons: I succumb to eating a delicious bacon egg and cheese at McDonald's, although it's become a rare occurrence (hopefully never again). I simply would never criticize you in person for your choices, nor would I make fun of you behind your back. I know that pissing people off and hurting people's feelings is not the way to help us change, and change the world.
So I respect others right to choose... yet I still find myself torn: how do I tell someone as hypocritical as my friend mentioned earlier that she is making things worse, and that no, I don't need to 'lighten up'? Should I simply point out the fact that the joke is subversive in nature, and goes against everything she preaches she stands for? Am I truly being an anal retentive, near-sighted, insensitive and ignorant asshole by informing her politely that she just insulted herself? Would I be naive to tell her that I believe with all my heart and soul that we (humanity) need to all work together to change the way we live (and eat) because it's literally destroying our future?
I'm not sure yet how I'm going to approach her with these thoughts and feelings, but while I ponder it I'm going to do my best to continue spreading the very amazing stories, documentaries, and most importantly... the Facts that gave my life more meaning, and inspired me to chase something greater than myself and my self-centered desires.
So stay tuned... for those of you who actually pay attention to some of my posts, and everyone else too: I'm fighting for our future.
Save a boat-load of cash, live longer & happier lives by eating organic - no bullshit
- http://foodmatters.tv/articles-1/10-tips-for-buying-organic-food-on-a-budget
- http://www.wholefoodsonabudget.com/p/our-budget.html
“Every truth passes through three stages before it is recognized In the first it is ridiculed, in the second it is opposed, in the third it is regarded as self-evident” -Arthur Schopenhauer